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How to Help a Dog with Grooming Anxiety

Lillian Ruff Pet Spa

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Golden Retriever looking calm

Many dogs experience anxiety around grooming. Whether it’s the sound of clippers, running water, or simply being handled, fear can make grooming stressful for everyone.

Signs of Grooming Anxiety

  • Trembling or shaking
  • Panting excessively
  • Trying to escape
  • Hiding or cowering
  • Growling or snapping
  • Drooling
  • Refusing to enter the grooming area
  • Submissive urination

Why Dogs Fear Grooming

  • Negative past experiences
  • Lack of early exposure
  • Sensitivity to sounds (clippers, dryers)
  • Discomfort with restraint
  • Pain from mats, skin conditions, or previous injuries
  • General anxiety disorder

Desensitization Techniques

Start Small

Begin with handling exercises at home:

  • Touch paws, ears, and tail
  • Lift lips to see teeth
  • Run hands over the entire body
  • Reward calm behavior

Introduce Tools Gradually

  1. Show the tool without using it
  2. Let them sniff and investigate
  3. Turn on clippers/dryer from a distance
  4. Gradually move closer over days/weeks
  5. Always pair with treats

Practice Mock Sessions

  • Pretend to groom without actually doing it
  • Keep sessions short (2-5 minutes)
  • End on a positive note
  • Gradually increase duration

At-Home Calming Strategies

  • Exercise before grooming - a tired dog is calmer
  • Use calming music - classical or specially designed pet music
  • Try calming aids - Thundershirts, pheromone sprays
  • Create positive associations - treats, praise, toys
  • Stay calm yourself - dogs sense your emotions

Choosing the Right Groomer

Look for groomers who:

  • Use gentle handling techniques
  • Allow breaks during sessions
  • Work at the dog’s pace
  • Have experience with anxious dogs
  • Create a calm environment

When to Seek Professional Help

If anxiety is severe, consult:

  • Your veterinarian (may recommend anti-anxiety medication)
  • A certified animal behaviorist
  • A professional dog trainer

At Lillian Ruff Pet Spa, we specialize in gentle, patient grooming for anxious dogs. Book a consultation to discuss your pup’s needs.

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